Well, you do have some really good advice here. But I think I am going to add my mothers wise advice. She told me, "Open Eyes, the one thing that you have to know is that BOYS/MEN will tell you all kinds of wonderful things to get you to have sex, even that they are madly in love with you DON'T BELIEVE THEM". She also told me "If a man really loves you, he will repect you and wont pressure you to have sex. If you say no and they don't come back? it definitely isn't love".

I said no many times and I began to realize how very right my mother was. The ones that I said no to were just trolling for a good time and would have only hurt me. Maybe I am old fashioned, but I don't think that having sex with a guy at your age should be about swiping the v-card at all. The v-card you possess has a lot of credit and no debt. Make sure when you decide to use it, it is not wasted.

If this guy is going to be worth being called your boy friend, first and foremost he should at the very least RESPECT YOU. To be honest, for me, it was never the choice of that guy at all, it was MY choice. If a guy loves you, he will respect that.

Open Eyes