4 1/2 years is way too long for me... And for me, oral and (really, I can't say the "a-word"?) b-u-t-t sex counts as losing my virginity, so that makes it even much more scarier for me because I want my first time to be via intercourse, but at the same time what happens if I fall in love with a girl first? (I'm bisexual). I'm very black and white and old-fashioned about this and I think it's ridiculous, especially since that once my virginity is gone there's nothing holding me back. I'm a little worried about what's going to happen once I get to "the other side". I'm not sure how I will feel, what will stop me from making bad decisions. I just want to get it over with so I can go out and have fun without my cherry holding me back. There is at least two beautiful people I turned down that I wish I hadn't. If I wasn't a virgin, I would have had sex with them. Now I'm wondering is it worth the wait?