Switch, I'm sorry you've been so upset by this. You've talked about your roommate before, though. There have been many things in the past you've liked about her, and I suspect that caused you to overlook some of her less generous characteristics.
It might be easier for (& on) you to move on to other people than to try to figure out this one. Some people don't connect with others, & she seems firmly planted among them.
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