I am sorry sunangel. You didn't do anything wrong from the sound of your post. I hope I can be of a little help.

Can you think of anything that would've set him off more than "usual" tonight? Perhaps something with work? I'm not trying to say that he's excused by a bad day at work, he's not. You weren't the result of his bad day, thus you don't deserve to be the brunt of his anger (assuming that's even the problem. I was just using an example).

This really shouldn't be an okay norm...a wife should feel 100% comfortable talking to her husband about anything, and vice versa. You shouldn't need to pick and choose every word that comes out of your mouth. You're talking to your husband, not campaigning for office. I am sorry it's that way between you two. I would ask you about the possibility of talking to him about it or perhaps couples counseling, but I don't know how he would approach that.

I am very sorry he upset you. Please, know that you didn't do anything wrong, and stay strong, okay? I will keep you in my prayers.

I am very sorry that he upset you. Please, take solace in the fact you didn't do anything wrong, and this