No need to apologize Kitten. It's okay. I am very happy to hear you have a new therapist, and I hope things go well for you.

You do have a point in him not pursuing you...I'm wondering if for him it's a matter of the fun being in the chase (so to speak). I'm trying to think like him, which is difficult for someone like me, to say the least. At any rate, I would tell you you're probably very correct in calling him a selfish asshat. :P

Do what it takes to put this behind you, and don't let this guy cause you any more distress than he already has.

I wish you nothing but the best in this.