is it bad if I repeat myself? I think I am starting to have a better r/s with an old friend. when she called me this week for my birthday (hint hint did you post your greetings? it's not too late ) I noticed I treated her with a lot less transference than usual, which made for a MUCH better conversation. becuz T is working these transference issues out of OUR r/s. so I can start seeing people as they really are, and being who I really am.