Thanks bb2023 I actually called her the other day and she has agreed to come out to the farm next week for the afternoon at least. I told her that if she wanted to go home we could do that immediately but that I really wanted her to come out and see the changes I had made to the house. Shes all for it YAY. I have an appt with my dr in 2 weeks too with her, he has agreed to meet my Aunt (M) and she wants to go just to meet him. I trust my Dr and know he will be able to help her if she chooses to take him on. Her daughter basically said she didn't care what I did "because it isn't her problem" oh well. I did call my Mom to talk about some of my concerns, altho I didn't tell her everything, for her sake she said whatever I need she will do, which is a relief. Thanks again for listening and the great advice and alternative possibilities. Just thought I should update you as you where here when I needed you.
Thanks again will keep you updated.

Huge Hugz
Nams