Like bluemountains, I was able to access a ton of info on my T. I actually found out a particular piece of financial info that T would probably be embarrassed about if she knew I knew about it. However, my knowing the info kinda gives me a "one up" feeling because H and I haven't had happen to us what happened to T and her H.

I feel like in one area of my life, I am better than T, in a manner of speaking.