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Old May 16, 2006, 06:48 AM
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Sezzie Sezzie is offline
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Hi All.
It's me Sezzie.
I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to overcome such a paralysing level of perfectionism. My level of perfectionism is so great that it doesn't let me finish things or sit exams. I just become so determined that i'll fail that i just don't bother!! I've currently bailed out of uni again! No suprises there!!! I'm just so scared that i'm going to end up doing nothing!!!! I am doing nothing much at the moment- but i just don't know how to get over this ridiculous mentality that i have going on. I'm sort of going through a quarter life crisis where i know what i wana be doin now and later and it just feels so hugely out of my reach!!!! It's depressing the crap out of me! I just feel like there's no point to my life!!!!
Please-I would be so grateful if anyone gave me some advice about this or whether they know that it's possible to change this thinking!!
Because i'm so stuck and it's such a horrible place to be in with such high unrelenting expectations!!
-Love and hugs to you all and especially those who are struggling at the mo-
Sezzie

I so desperately need some helpies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!