I would have to say just BE YOURSELF and try to HANG OUT - being FRIENDS first and dates later (and) then let the cards be dealt by good old Mother Nature....... in my almost 40 years of living I can say that most males want a friend and a lover (of the heart), some one they can hang with and feel comfortable around - some one that takes an interest in the things & activities he likes.... Guys bond thru DOING!! - so enjoy those recreational moments with him.

Good Luck.................

LoVe,
Rhapsody -