Oh, I am so sorry, no, ofcourse you never said you ever wanted to harm her at all here. And you know what?, if she really did read all the replys here she would see that you have genuine concerns and those concerns have been validated.

Maybe this is a blessing in disguise to be honest. Let her call the police because she is NOT protecting her younger children from this abusive daughter. It is time for her to recognize what is really going on and that her younger children are truely being at risk. Let her report this, bring light to reality of the situation IMO.

Open Eyes