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Originally Posted by Roadie
Switch, I'm sorry you've been so upset by this. You've talked about your roommate before, though. There have been many things in the past you've liked about her, and I suspect that caused you to overlook some of her less generous characteristics.
It might be easier for (& on) you to move on to other people than to try to figure out this one. Some people don't connect with others, & she seems firmly planted among them.
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I think you're right Roadie, I need to stop trying to fix her, and stop bowing down to her, and letting her affect me like this. It's going to be hard because we are still friends, and she still means a lot to me - and so does her approval - and I can't move out till August (when I'm moving anyway).
I think you've pointed out some things to me that I need to start listening to, and a lot of it revolves around my room mate. I'm going to make an effort to stop letting the bad things about her hurt me as much as they do...
At least I think that's what you were saying?
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