Ok Thanks (((SeptemberMorn )))

I thought long and hard on this one.

I guess what you are saying is- not to be hell-bent on one particular way of getting from A to B. It doesn't matter what the route is as long as you get to where you want to be.

And also if plan A doesn't appear to be working, it's ok to try plan B,C,D etc and try not to worry about it!

Maybe trying things in a way that I am more comfortable with, rather than trying to do it like everyone else. I don't know.

It has certainly got me thinking. I have read an awful lot of books and thought.... this must be the way to do it. And then found out at a later date that I knew a much easier way of doing it.

Trial and error and trying not to be utterly dismayed when I make a mistake.

Thanks again.