....I guess maybe cuz of my issues with CSA...
Some guy hugging me after the first session would probably throw me into a flashback....and complete fear...of being trapped.

Sometimes I think I would like it if my T hugged me if I was really really really upset...but I usually think about it outside of session...In session, thats almost the last thing I want her to do...shes fine..wayyyy over there in her chair.

But then again I have a lot of personal space issues etc etc..

But I agree that he should have asked first and not just said "Ima hugger"....cuz Therapy isnt about him..being a hugger.... blah i dont mean to sound mean...just what I would think...but then again I always think the whole world wants to hurt me...so

blah.