Okay I admit that I would be hesitant as well. But having a totally different experience with my soon to be ex-T (he has a serious no touch policy), I would be very happy. There have been times that I've been some what emotional and have felt like I've been left to hang out there alone because my T. wouldn't even come sit next to me or put his hand on my arm or touch my shoulder... I would have been able to go so much further with sharing feelings if I knew I wouldn't be left there all upset with someone just sitting there watching me go through it all...

so I would be happy... that doesn't mean that after a time that you decide its not for you that you couldn't say that...