How long have you been with this T?

I think that for me, since I have been with my T for quite a few years and we've worked so hard on our relationship, it wouldn't feel "fair" to just disappear. I know that I CAN, and that it's totally within my rights as a client...but it just doesn't feel like it would honor the work we've done together.

I don't know if that relates to your situation at all...but that's the first thing that popped into my head.
to you