I left my old T--- unfortunatley, with a phone session. It felt kinda wierd--spending a year and a half with her in person but, not not ending it--seeing her in person. but, at the same time-- i felt the relief I think you are talking about-- like I felt as if I had of went in person I might have changed my mind.

The key is-- what do YOU need? What do YOU want? At the end of the day, you are the one who is going to have deal with it much more then your T will. The client always carries the burden more then the T does. also, nothings really set in stone-- life happens-- ya know, so- you choose not to go back and then two weeks later u decide that u want to call your T and end it in person-- life happens- T's understand this- you can be flexible with your decision somewhat. I try not to be though, just because it was soo hard for me to quit- my old T.