(((((((((((((Squiggle))))))))))))))) my thoughts are "squiggle is not a stalker" ... squiggle is someone who is naturally curious about someone who knows an incredible amount about her and has all kinds of emotional stuff coming up that she is trying to deal with the only way she knows how ... you haven't gone to the house, you haven't hidden in the hedges, you haven't gone and hung out on the doorstep waiting for her to get home or camped out in your car outside the drive; you've looked at information that is publically accessible and that your T should already know is there. Yes, there could be boundary stepping going on there but you've shared what's going on and can now work this out

Any T these days would need to google themselves and see what is publically available knowing that these kinds of things come up I think it's also a problem with how much information is so easily available these days eg. once you could have looked up a phonebook and she may have been unlisted for her private address there; these days google seems to have everything easily available and putting it out there for everyone to see, and then to be able to see the street view on google maps as well It does make it hard and very tempting I think.

I hope your T replies soon and you aren't left waiting for long worrying about all of this; and that the two of you can talk and work out all the feelings and thoughts that are coming up with this and that it helps you i'm really glad you let her know what was going on so you can work through it; and hopefully address those "mean" feelings as well to see what's going on there