many people have asked to be in a relationship with me, i date them for a while but, always say no. men kinda get on my nerves... i've always been that "independent" kind of person... even when i was a pre-teen, you wouldn't see me feeling like I need a significant other to be happy, i just didn't care... and honestly, when I'm dating someone and they do cutesy stuff and call me too much it gets on my nerves and I just want them to give me my space. Like my expectations when dating someone is to probly talk twice a week at the most. the majority of this population i think begs to differ!!.

i have always been career-oriented... what do i want my life to look like years down the road? i stopped dating completley because I always end up turning the guy down.. they seem so disappointed and it doesn't really phase me at all ... i'm just like hmph' okay then.. i dont want to be a b**** but, i'm not intentionally trying to be this way. i struggle with wanting sexual intimacy from girls and emotional connection from guys... ( backwards right?) lol.I'm a girl fyi. i am so young... i might just need to give myself grace to figure this out.

it's hard though, when I just kinda dont want to connect with a guy emotionally but, not physically ... and then the opposite for girls.

wierd. idk i usually just dont care about this type of stuff but, valentines day is coming soon and i've never been in a relationship. i'm 22.