Gosh Blondie I hate to hear that this has become a problem for you..when you consider the alternative...it's a blessing. I've been there and wish I still looked that good; I too am very conscious of body image and grooming. God has blessed me with a younger appearance than most people my age. I have to say when hitting 50; my thoughts were that "I had arrived!" At 50 you are a legitimate adult of wisdom and worth, and I did not mind it at all. I just had a different take on it. I am still vain though and the wrinkles are there...but the whole picture is still pretty darn good. (she says without feeling narcissistic. LOL) Happier thoughts to you, hugs, bj