I don't think reciprocity is the main sticking point for me- it is odd and all but not a huge deal. My problem is not that therapy is not friendship, I am probably not all that attached to my closest friends and I have had the same basic group for over 25 years. I like them and all, and would do anything I could for them, but I don't discuss feelings or stuff like that with them. I don't mind interaction with others. I don't think I really need others but sometimes I like to have others around and ask them to help out and such. I will reflect on all you all's ideas and come back.