It sounds like she wasn't a good match for you. I know right now it feels like its not a good idea and all, but maybe you could find a therapist in your area that could meet your needs better. I am thinking of changing therapist myself and all of the good and the bad experiences I have with current T. has given me a whole list of questions and criterias to look for in the next T. I didn't ask any questions when started with first T. But now I know what will or at least what won't work for me. All T.s are different and I bet there is a great one out there for you.