Lostmyway, I agree!
I filled out this 30-question form for him, and another worksheet, where I indicated some issues around sexual stuff with my family (not exactly CSA, but weirdness). I gave it to him at the start of the session, so he didn't have time to look at it. But if he had, he would have seen that there were sexual issues, both in my past and currently. I would think he would have hesitated on the hugging thing, but he hadn't read my answers yet.
Still, better to err on the side of safety, no? It's just therapy 101.
The approach was a bit overwhelming. He was standing in front of the door, and he opened his arms really wide as he said, "You can't tell me your whole life story..." So blocking the door, and making it hard for me to say no since he was PHYSICALLY primed and expectant. (sigh)
No problem about the anger, I don't blame you at all! Just hope this thread isn't too triggering for anyone
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Originally Posted by lostmyway21
Yes i have to agree it did seem that way. My other concern was even there was no CSA issues, how was he so certain on the first visit? Who actually tells there T EVERY thing on there first visit? I didn't talk about the SA for over a month, and I think even that was rather quick. He should have asked if it was okay with you. I mean after all the therapy is about YOU.
I think I let my anger about my T and hugging get in the way of my initial post. Sorry. 
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