Ugh, I'm sorry!! It sounds like you need to find someone else. I know how exhausting that is. But you shouldn't have to feel like she's not remembering details about your life, or is telling you what you can and cannot discuss.

My T is OK. Not GREAT. Not perfect. Not someone I'm gonna run out and recommend all my friends to. Just OK. But I have no other options due to finances right now We mesh well together and have a good connection. He gets my quirky sense of humor (no one EVER does) but also knows when to turn it on and be serious with me. I lucked out that we get along well, but if we didn't, I would have to find someone else.

Good luck to you - DON'T GIVE UP ON FINDING A BETTER THERAPIST!!