I would tell you that unless you give it a shot, you'll never know what could've been, you know? It's difficult to lose a relationship...God knows it's difficult. But you have to, as best you can, pull yourself up by the bootstraps, learn from your experiences, and try again.

I firmly believe there is someone out there for everyone. It's simply a matter of sifting through the sand to find the speck of gold.
Just remember that men are people just like you. Try not to fall in love with what you think of someone instead of who someone is, if that makes sense. That only sets you up for failure.
I hope things go well for you, and I hope I was of some help.