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blossommayflower27 · Feb 14, 2012, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by anderson

Thak you both so much,
It has been hard on us With T cause there has only been female T available. But I just found out that they have some new Male T's.

Some how they felt that I could only work with a female T and that is just not happening. We went to the supervisor and asked for a new T. At first she wanted us to switch back to the TGC which has been around here for years but we never really had any luck with them.

She asked why we wanted a male T, the simple reason is that we have been hurt by both male and females in the past. But those within are more able to accept a man as an individual the a women. Those within can just not understand how a woman can hurt another woman the same way a man can. The thought of going over memiors volentary in a closed room with a female T just sent us truama switching. Needless to say therapy was not helping us heal it was just sending us backwards.

Now that we can see a male T and have Sasha with us we hope those within will not be so scared of the past.

It is good to hear such insight...and that you are advocating for yourself is great too!!!we love that you have such a strong desire to help to better yourself and knowing what will help you stay on task!!!Such exciting news to hear that you all are now comfortable with your new T...Love Love Love your insight!!!warm and safe(((*HUGS*)))coming your way!!!take care!!!