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Old Feb 14, 2012, 03:18 AM
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Originally Posted by just_some_girl View Post
**** knows...
Not sure I could.

My T always seems very focused - I do know she meditates a lot, perhaps thats helps.
I know I couldn't either I wondered about meditation when I was thinking about this and if that played any part for any

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Originally Posted by nightsky View Post
I've wondered about that too. My T often goes from client to client with no break....one client walks out, and I walk in....but somehow he manages to be SO present with me and whatever is going on. He remembers the details of my story, of our last session, he notices little things about what my body language is saying. I REALLY don't know how he does it.

As for T's having their own problems...my T has told me many times that he likes the fact that focusing on other people 8 hours a day takes him out of his head and away from his own stuff. I know that when I connect with other people, it helps me forget about my own troubles, so that part totally makes sense to me.
I like what your T shared about getting his head out of his own stuff; I know when I listen to others that can be one good part of it; I'm glad he is so present for you

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