I have had ED for 6-7 years and have pretty much done the course in drugs and vacuum pump. My libido remains very high however and I could achieve some level of satisfaction by other means than intercourse if I had the right partner. Unfortunately, I do not have a wife who is interested enough to experiment with oral, etc. I go crazy thinking about sex but can't get any. My sole relief is with a big massager that I use to masturbate. That at least gives me a orgasm. Does anyone else have these types of frustations?