There was one occasion a few years back where i was visibly upset about something and was crying. Even then, my mom acted like she didn't notice.

When i was a teen and went out on dates, my mom usually didn't ask where we were going and didn't wait up for me. Sometimes she didn't even meet the guy.

When i was a kid, they left us alone with babysitters all the time. My mom worked full time when we were little and took business trips, and it was traumatic for my sister and I, yet she didn't say no to traveling at work or try to get a different job.

A few years ago, i told her i had to have a test to make sure i didnt have a brain tumor. She didn't even call me to see how the test turned out.

Stuff like this. . .

Am i just nitpicking that these things upset me? Is this odd for a parent or not?