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Old Feb 14, 2012, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Yes. I did.

Step one was noticing every time I did it.
Step two was making an effort of will to look them in the eye.

It got easier with time.
I think I am going to make a concerted effort to try to do so next session. I want/need to learn to look people in the eye.

Then the hard part IMO...trying not to look creepy while doing it. My ex-gf has said when I look at her, it is as if I'm looking straight into her soul. I realize this probably has just as much to do with her as it does with me, but still.
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