hey, lizzie - i hear ya. i am gay and really resent it when i hear bishops and the pope say that i am disordered. frankly, i think purposely celibate people are disordered and that healthy sexually active people are normal! I don't understand how people who don't have sex can claim to be experts on the subject . . . I mean, really, where is the common sense? I also do not understand how people can claim that 2000+ year-old books are expert resources on sexuality in view of all the sexual scientific research that has taken place in the last 100 years. It's just sickening. Yet, people buy into it. It's unbelievable. Maybe it's more of a double ignorance situation? That's still hard but it's not as hard as the coupon you describe. All the best to you!