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Feb 14, 2012, 04:41 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
Posts: 1,797
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Thanks blossom and sparrow,
My new surport group is working wonders for us. On of the groups questions was "How does a T help you?"
I really could not think of very much positive from those here in Az. But when I thought back to the T's that helped me before we moved out here. The list was very long. The main thing was that they accepted us and did not Tell us we could not do things, nor did they tell us that we were having flash backs or listening to gossip.
They had vailidated us and help us become stronger to protect the whole. My favorite one was a male and he used Thought feild therapy with us.
He tought us to use the matra
"The stupid Son of a ****** or ****** was just doing the best he/she could do with what they had to work with"
He helped us to learn that we be safe .
It just never went all the way for those within to trust female T all the way. Went to them when we had to but it always felt like a battle feild.
Just wish that we had more good T's for DID"ers then we got right now.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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