hey Selene,
I don't think you're alone. My room mate (who has anger issues, but that's about it) spends most of her time with her girlfriend and they pick at each others bodies. I have to seriously resist it when I'm with someone too.
you do need to try and stop though, even though it's really hard.
use your husband as motivation?
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