I really really really think the issue is on her end. You are in the middle of a family crisis and she pulls this??? Not the time to talk about "maybe therapy isn't for you" bs.

From your previous posts she sounds VERY uncomfortable with transference and the "process". I have never heard of a T saying "no more talk about the process".

I know your region is a tough one to find the right T but I hope you can start looking.
I'm really sorry to read about your brother.