Welcome, megumi.

I'd say, while you're figuring things out, keep posting & how best to state/present things.

"Belief" is often a matter not of belief so much as of
--presentation
--perception

So a lot depends on how I say something to you in the first place & how you are hearing me that day and others hear me. One may believe me but no one else. Go figure!

Who's right? Wrong?

Well, no one. Bad communication is to blame for an all-around mess.

Keep posting, & if I don't understand then I'll let you know that & you try again. How's that?