Well, I understand the desire for closure all too well. But even if your ex does give you some feed back it may only serve as you wanting to say "Yeah But" back and you may still feel like you have not gotten closure.

Often in a situation like this the other person may not really have a "one big answer" that your looking for or can accept. It sounds to me like she obviously doesn't want any more interactions with you and it may very well be due to her own inability to define the reason. The reason could be that she somehow had outgrown you or felt that you could not truely meet HER needs somehow. She may not truely know how to explain it to you, may fear that you will only want to find a way to continue the relationship in which she apparently has no interest in doing.

I am sorry that you dont have the answers. But it seems like you have tried to contact her and she is just not responding. Unfortuanately we cannot MAKE other people give us what we need.

All you can do at this point is write to her and tell her that you miss her and you would like to know what happened or if you did something wrong that your not aware of. You can tell her that you will accept her choice but that you just want some closure. And if she still doesn't respond then you have to settle for that and move on somehow.

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