Hi Kate

Im sorry your experiencing difficulties with your relationship right now. I feel you owe it to yourself to do what feels right for you. If you see no way of resolving the issues between yourself and your partner then perhaps it is time to move on. Yes it will be difficult, unsettling and probably quite scary but no one deserves to be verbally abused regularly like this - regardless of whether drink was involved or not. Your partner might be experiencing difficulties of their own and might not know the appropriate means of expressing how they feel or asking for help. Whether or not this is true you can only really be responsible for your own actions, you might not be able to change them but you can move on and attempt to change your life for the better if you want too. Good luck.