Thank you for your opinion. My nephew is already an adult and you are right, I do not want to be a witness of his self-destruction. Therapy is expensive and he doesn't have medical insurance. I was thinking on giving him an ultimatum and stricter conditions but he is always trying to bend the rules and do what we have told him not to. It's tireing. I am inclinated to think that telling him that his stay in my home is over because it is not helping him mature and prepare himself to be an independent man. That he's thrown his chance to get a career and has wasted his time, gas, money, energy and effort. And that's it. In the past he talked abut joining the army and I am sure that a couple of yeas serving will be very good for him. We'll see if now that he has failed in his education he will talk again about the army or it was just words.