my guess is letting her know some of how bad it is, is what is needed even though it's very hard to do. Hopefully it helps her to know how to help you best. Not sure what happens in college situations; but I can't imagine any reason from what you've described for anything to go outside of the therapists office (plus her supervisor). My understanding is some therapists choose to stay in a level of supervision, not that it's required but for their own ongoing growth and care. I hope you can stick with the therapy and that it is something that helps