Hi LEX,

Sorry to hear that matters are not going so well for you and your love.... I had not heard from you in a while on the website so I guess I felt that all was well - or at least going smoothly.

I hear what you are saying and I feel the frustration in your heart and words.......
I honestly think what you two are experiencing here is the great divide between men & women - the lack of understanding each other from "their" side of the fence.... I say this for I was once where you are now and I remainned clueless until I took the time to learn about him as a male and then educated him about me as a female (and) I did all this with out hate, resentment or anger.
Check out: http://4-womenonly.com/home.aspx

BTW - I can see how and why he saw things in a different way than you did, for when one talks about kids they can't help but put the two together and come up with "US" - the man and woman that created the child out of LOVE for each other.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -