I'm sorry girl, I had to giggle a little on this one because what your boyfriend sounds like is a guy!...lol

I think the majority of the women in this world suffer from the same lack of communication in their relationships, and if they don't then their damned lucky and us typical ones envy them!

What I would (and have done) is demand some excitement, be honest, and tell him your bored out of your freaking skull. Tell him you want to make love outside, go skinny dipping, get fall down drunk, and go to party.

If he rebels against this then pull his butt into the water and strip off his clothes...lol..j/k

Seriously, on a serious note, I think, from what I can see, he seems like a decent guy, just extremely boring. I think what he needs is a good night of crazy excitement and maybe he will get addicted. You never know.

Good luck with that.