Your concern is understandable. You did not mention whether this is an internist or a gynocologist. Surely, there are female doctors you could go to. However, I can tell you that I have a friend who is a gynocologist and he has seen so many female private parts that he is not the least bit a problem with it. I don't really think you should worry about it. I would not hesitate to go to a female doctor with my male problems but everyone is different. Best wishes.