People don't hand their kids over because they are having a rough go of it lately. Obese mom's don't give their kids away because they can only watch their kids play instead of play with them. Feeling like a bad mom is a normal thing. I always wonder what I can do better on and live with guilt because I didn't do this right or say this right. Feeling like a bad mom vs actually being a bad mom are two different things and I don't feel like your simple does it solution is conducive to a lot of women on here who are struggling with these feelings. Imo.