I have no suggestions but I just wanted to say that you are heard here. It seems like you are doing everything possible at this point and now the waiting game is happening. That is what is great about this place, the in between stuff where there is no one in the real world to talk about this kind of stuff.

You should be very proud of yourself for speaking up for your niece and nephews and who a better advocate than someone who has been through the same thing they have and knows the emotions involved. They deserve you and are very lucky to have you. Well done.

It is hard for people to see hate in the world because fortunately for them they live in a very nice bubble. It usually takes one prick of the bubble to let them see the evil that goes on. You can never truly understand a persons situation unless you have lived it and that makes me happy when people don't understand my hardships, it means they haven't felt it.