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Feb 16, 2012, 12:52 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I have to agree with Lynn. This is definitely a danger signal. And for him to just brush it off as if it was "nothing" is ridiculous! He's almost telling you that you're "over-reacting." You are NOT!  I would be LIVID if I'd found that out about MY fiance'. In fact I'd probably want him to change jobs! LOL
i'd think twice (or three times!) before marrying this guy. If he can't be true while you're engaged, what's going to happen when you're married?  Is he going to have girlfriends then too? Is this the first time you two have had troubles? Is he good to you? Like Lynn asked, how does he treat you and make you feel? These are important questions. Maybe couples counseling will help.
I wish you the very best. I hope things work out the way you want them to. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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