I can't really help with your problem. But i need to say that i admire you, i admire for being so secure in your relationship and with yourself that you gave him a little space when that other girl who even you think is attractive yourself started giving him attention. How you handled that was very mature. I wish i could say the same about him .. because what you did to me was noble, loving , and so sweet . You we're thinking about him and not worrying about yourself. If my fiance worked with an attractive women i'd feel threatened and if he even talked to her once. My heart would break. I can only dream of being as brave and as caring as you one day .