Offended me? Never. Made me feel hurt and like she (T) doesn't understand a thing? Happens on a regular basis. But on the other hand, she says what she sees, what she thinks, and on about half of the cases she's right. I go to her to help me with stuff and not to nod her head and say what I want to hear. I've got other people doing that just fine. Sometimes the not so nice things, uncomfortable questions and the different opinion is exactly what I need to hear. Sometimes she probably should choose different wording, but then again, we're all just human.

You are not wrong for feeling what you feel. I mean, feelings are what they are, you can't just change up your mind and feel something else. She hurt you by saying what she said, and maybe it would be a good idea to talk to her about it again, or write it out and give it to her, or just to figure out on your own how you really wanted her to react. I think somewhere deep down you probably know it, if you really didn't know what you wanted from her when you revealed that, you wouldn't feel hurt. If you truly didn't know what you want/need from her, what she said or didn't say wouldn't have hurt you, any reaction would've been fine. And when (if) you figure out how can she help you, that can change a lot. If you decide tell her. Ts can't read our minds, unfortunately. It's totally not fair, but they really can't...