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Originally Posted by Mordecaii
How do i stop acting on them.? There really so overwhelming , I cry and sometimes even self injure until i feel better or he reassures me that im the only one he cares about.I dont know if i could ever contain those feelings.They put me in a panic . And it just hurts, i hurt so bad,
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Hi, I think you may have some issues of abandonment in your past. I think until you
really address those feelings you will need lots of reassurance from the people you care about. That will wearing on your bf over time or for that matter other's in your life. Since you have a computer, you might search some on the psychology about the after affects of feeling abandoned. I will also do a search for you and send you the links that I find before long. Take care sweetie, and know with understanding comes some healing. hugs, bj