My T can be a little fixy NOW, a year and a half into the relationship. Like I'll be whining about something about my husband, and he'll go, "JUST TELL him that!" Usually, I'll answer, "I DID TELL HIM that. How long have you known me?" And then we laugh. However, in the first six months, he rarely tried to fix anything without me asking, "what do I do about that exactly?" He'd say something profound, and I could tell he was all proud of how insightful he was being, and I'd be like, "yeah, whatever, but what do I DO about it?" He'd look kinda of rueful or half embarrassed and then be practical with me.

I would say that seeing me is not good for my T's ego, but for the fact that I adore him and he knows it. LOL.