I know what you mean. That creeps me out when they try to do it to me too. I particularly hate when they tell you you did something right or, god help them that they are proud of you. I am always like who the ef are you to tell me it was good? Etc. Efing get away from me.
At first my hugely negative reaction, after she had wilfully ignored my more gentle sarcasm to dissuade her, she persisted thereby leading me into rage, she was taken aback.